What’s New: March 2025
The month of love and Valentine's festivities may be over, but we're polyamorous all year round! Scroll down for news, events, and updates on what's been going on in my world...
Exclusive Content on Patreon
I've come to some intimate realisations in therapy around some unhealthy tendencies I have that I inherited from my parents, and so I took to my video diary, available to Metamour tier members and above on my Patreon, to talk all about it. 'Micromanagement, Scheduling, and Letting Go' is a vulnerable look at my anxiety manifesting as a need for control, how it affects my relationships, and what I'm doing to let go of it to be a better person and partner.
Also, there was a BIG change in my polycule dynamic recently...and I shared some details about how I'm handling it. In 'From Kitchen Table to Parallel Polyamory', I shared my experiences in various types of polycule dynamics, what I prefer, and the pros and cons of tight-knit to siloed metamour interactions on the spectrum.
As an accredited sex educator, I want to make sure that you're playing well and playing safely. So I published a guide on what makes sex toys safe, and what unsafe materials some sex toy companies put into their toys that are cheap but just too good to be true. I also weighed in on whether open relationships are more unfair for men, diving into the intersection of non-monogamy and gender and the dynamics that arise from that! And, I also talked about invisible string theory, a determinist philosophy in dating that has its share of pros and cons.
All this and more is available on my Patreon, which is where you can directly support my work and get lots of perks and exclusive content in return!
Upcoming Events
I'm doing an online lecture on March 24 titled 'Relationship Anarchy: The Feminist Case for Radical Connection' as part of the Feminist Lecture Programme series.
Also, I'm speaking at South West Love Fest April 4-6, where I'll be doing my signature workshop on how to have a threesome! Click below to find out more and get tickets to this in-person event (though I'll be joining remotely)
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