What’s New: April 2025
It's Autism Awareness Month!
Given that there's such a huge overlap between neurodivergence and polyamory, I've got lots of content on the topic you might be interested in. Most recently, I was featured in The Telegraph talking about my experiences of sex, relationships and polyamory as a person diagnosed with both autism and ADHD!
Want more detail? Well, you can listen to the full story in audio format in this major 41-minute voice note on my Patreon, with all the things I said to the journalist that didn't make it into the article. This post contains so much more insight and detail than was ever included in the piece, and you can access it now by becoming a paid subscriber.
For more content on neurodivergence, you can also check out my Polyamory and ADHD workshop, my Polyamory and Autism lecture, and an exclusive interview at the Relationship Super Conference - once again, all available on Patreon.
Struggling with Polyamorous Dating?
As a relationship coach, I get a lot of questions about dating - in fact, I answered a few as part of my monthly Q&A with my patrons. I've gotten back into the dating world recently, and thought I'd share my insights on what approaches have worked well for me personally in my latest video diary entry, 'How To Date As A Polyamorous Person'. You also get a thorough tour of my Feeld profile and top tips from profile construction, partner vetting, to date ideas!
If you want to learn about how bisexuality impacts all of this, this month I've also released a voice note about my experiences and advice to fellow bisexuals.
Want A Spicy Story? 🌶️
A recent win: I had a threesome with my two partners on Metamour Day, and it was a resounding success! I share a lot of sex stories on my Patreon - past highlights include getting triple penetrated at a 6-person orgy and a bisexual threesome at Pride. And that's just the tip of the iceberg...
My Patreon is where I share the kind of stuff I can't share on social media - no worries about shadowbanning here! These entries (and so much more!) are available at the £5 Metamour tier and above.
My Favourite Resources, Sex Toys, and...Thoughts on Sabrina Carpenter?
I was featured in a number of articles this month - apart from the Telegraph feature mentioned above, I was consulted as an expert to recommend 19 ENM Resources with Cosmopolitan and 10 Sex Toys for British Vogue, featured for an explainer on symbiosexuality, and I even weighed in on the viral Sabrina Carpenter Eiffel Tower sex position discourse.
Also, I spoke at the University of Nottingham this year on relationship anarchy - and the full lecture is available for free on Youtube. Watch here.
Need Support?
If you need emotional support, advice, resources, or just a space to vent about all things non-monogamy, don't hesitate to reach out through my peer support service.
