What’s New: February 2025
I'm writing this from Hong Kong, where I've been spending Chinese New Year with my family - kung hei fat choi to those who celebrate! But February is also the month of love, and I do think you're going to love what I've got in store for you this month...
Exclusive Content on Patreon
I will always be committed to authentically portraying the good, the bad, and the ugly of polyamory through my public content - and my supporters on Patreon get multiple resources every month to enhance their polyamorous journey.
I started the year with a comprehensive guide differentiating between primary partners, anchor partners, and nesting partners, and the nuances of each label.
I also shared another long voice note on time management and scheduling logistics in polyamory - two topics that are very relevant no matter what your situation is!
I then weighed in on "post-ovulation clarity", and specifically how to deal with sexual shame as a sex therapist in training.
(Trigger warning for mention of sexual assault - not to me - in this paragraph) There are also some private details and stories from my personal life that I prefer to keep for those who directly support my work, to protect the safety and privacy of me and those in my life. Metamour tier members on my Patreon access my video diary, and last month, I dropped a 1.5 hour video on a very heavy topic - it's titled "Polyamory and Sexual Asssault (Part 4) - So, Another Victim Came Forward...". This (unusually long) diary entry is part of a series carrying on from certain traumatic events that happened in my polycule in March 2024, and covers topics like trauma, the cycle of abuse, revictimisation patterns, rape culture, and finding healing.
I'm aware that not everyone will have the capacity to engage in this discussion, but if you are able to, I hope it will be a valuable experience to join in on a conversation around a topic our community normally refuses to touch.
Upcoming Events
I'm doing an online lecture on March 24 titled 'Relationship Anarchy: The Feminist Case for Radical Connection' as part of the Feminist Lecture Programme series.
Also, I'm speaking at South West Love Fest April 4-6, where I'll be doing my signature workshop on how to have a threesome! Click below to find out more and get tickets to this in-person event (though I'll be joining remotely)
Need Support?
If you need emotional support, advice, resources, or just a space to vent about all things non-monogamy, don't hesitate to reach out through my peer support service.
