What’s New: October 2024
I'm always here creating new resources for you to have better, healthier non-monogamous relationships, and here's the latest in store!
NEW WORKSHOP COLLAB!
What IS hierarchical polyamory, and why do people do it? How does it interact with couple privilege and mononormativity? How does it show up (explicitly and implicitly) in polyamorous dynamics? How do you practice egalitarian values, EVEN when you are nested, married, or have children? (Yes, it's possible!)
Watch me and Millie and Nick from Decolonizing Love answer all of these questions and more in our next workshop, sharing personal stories and top tips. As usual, even if you can't make the date, you get a copy of the recording, so get a ticket anyway!
If you want to check out my previous polyamory workshops, you can find and download them here.
RECENT HIGHLIGHTS
Polyamory can sometimes be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster, and I shared what happened when I deescalated 3 connections in the same day with my Patreon subscribers.
I also shared:
a video about how my polycule recently navigated through some differences on expressing our boundaries and unaddressed couple privilege,
some thoughts on marriage,
top tips on nurturing polycule and metamour dynamics,
a review of some vintage non-monogamy films from the 30s and 40s,
and of course, the monthly Q&A with my patrons!
monthly photo dump, including photos from my various speaking engagements in August!
My Patreon is where I share my most vulnerable side - my worst mistakes, life lessons, and so much more. Becoming a paid subscriber means you get access to all of this content, everything before it, and everything after!
So if you're not subscribed yet, here's your chance. And, here's a sneak peek of what's coming up...
UPCOMING CONTENT ON PATREON
I contracted genital herpes for the first time, and decided to share what happened, how I handled it, how my partners reacted, and some helpful statistics and resources. Given that 2/3 of the world population has at least one form of herpes, this video is a must-watch on a very unfairly maligned STI. This will be dropping on October 10th!
This month, I'm also dropping:
a voice note on toxic positivity in polyamory
a video review reviewing, comparing, and contrasting the non-monogamous representation in two spooky vampire classics, Interview with a Vampire and What We Do In The Shadows. (What is is with vampires and polyamory, huh?)
a live Q&A for my patrons. Submit your questions anonymously.
a video titled "The Making of a Polyamorous Incel." I will elaborate no further.
a voice note explaining ambiamory.
a photo album of my month!
If you want to watch these as they drop, subscribe now.
OTHER UPDATES
I was at Bi Pride this year on a panel about sex education and bisexuality, which was a super informative and interesting time! You can watch it here.
I was also interviewed for Cosmo on whether open relationships are more unfair to men, and Metro on how I made friends through sex parties.
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