What’s New: June 2024

This Pride Month, I have a LOT of important announcements to make!

Join me at #Poly4Paly on June 15!

I've organised an emergency Palestine fundraiser where myself and other polyamorous creators will be sharing our top tips, big ideas, and personal stories from our polyamorous journeys as well as answering questions live. Get your tickets - even if you can't make the date, you get a recording so you have nothing to lose! Pay what you can, and we'll see you in two weeks! 

NEW WORKSHOP: Polyamory and ADHD

If you're polyamorous, you probably have ADHD or know someone with ADHD. So, for my next online workshop, myself and another polyamorous ADHD creator, Gabrielle Smith, will be sharing our top tips based on our lived experience with ADHD. As usual, even if you can't make the date, you get a copy of the recording, so get a ticket anyway! Tickets here.

If you want to check out my previous polyamory workshops, you can find and download them here.

Relationship Anarchy on My YouTube Channel

I very recently spoke at Women of the World Festival, where I delivered a speech titled 'Radical Connections Through Relationship Anarchy'. Watch the full speech on my YouTube channel, and subscribe there for more updates! I've almost uploaded my entire video archive on there for you to enjoy and share as you please. Once I get monetised (I'm halfway there), I might start uploading longer videso there too.

Recent Highlights from My Patreon

By far the most popular video I've had in a while was on Unprotected Sex With Multiple Partners. I've made many videos about barriers and safer sex in the past, and this is the first time I've been able to negotiate this so successfully in a polyamorous relationship. Also, I experienced a rare moment of jealousy, and share all about my experience and how I navigated it in this video!

This month on Patreon, I also reviewed the film 'Past Lives', dished out advice on 'messy' lists in polyamory as part of my monthly Q&A, mused on what makes a good sex party and the politics of polyamory, and launched a 3-part series on polyamory and SA. In addition, I also uploaded two bonus Q&As - one that I did in-person at Riot Party, and one to celebrate reaching 160K followers on Instagram.

And that was just THIS MONTH! Becoming a paid subscriber means you get access to all of this content, everything before it, and everything after! So if you're not subscribed yet, here's your chance. And, here's a sneak peek of what's coming up...

Upcoming Content on Patreon

June 5 - a voice note on a new term coined by Dan Savage, "tolyamory" - what I think about it, how common it is, and why it happens.

June 9 - a live Q&A for my patrons. Submit your questions anonymously.

June 10 - a video which is part 2 of my series on Polyamory and Sexual Assault, titled 'Cognitive Dissonance and Restorative Justice'.

June 15 - a video review of the sexy summer hit, Challengers, and why I think it's not a story about polyamory, but about kink

June 20 - a video on the topic of having sex while your partner is home, and a personal story on how I navigated this with my two partners and metamour.

June 25 - a voice note on New Relationship Energy.

June 30 - a photo album of my month!

Other Updates

Coming up, I'm speaking at one of the biggest festivals in the world, Glastonbury Festival! Tickets are sold out already, but if you can, come see me at a new venue called Scissors in The Park delivering a talk on relationship anarchy.

I've appeared in a few interviews - listen to me on the Pleasure Provocateur Podcast, read this article on polyamory and the law, and a musing on how departing from the relationship escalator can feel lonely!

Get All This & More on Patreon!

There’s only so much that I can say on social media, so if you want the deep dives, the vulnerable content, and to learn from all my worst mistakes, consider joining my Patreon 🔥