What’s New: July 2024
I hope you all had an excellent Pride Month! June is also my birthday month, and I had an amazing time with my lovers and friends on top of an incredibly busy month work-wise. I was in Barcelona on set with the porn director Erika Lust (more content coming soon...) and in Glastonbury to speak at the world-renowned Glastonbury Festival on threesomes. But that's not all - let's get to some incredibly exciting news!
Poly4Paly - Polyamory Educational Charity Fundraiser
Last month, I organised and hosted Poly4Paly, a fundraiser for the charity Medical Aid for Palestinians where myself and 20+ other non-monogamous creators shared our top tips on practising polyamory. I am delighted to announce that it was a resounding success - we raised over £13,000 (plus a handful of eSIMs), equivalent to about $16,500 USD!
The event recording is now available here for free. We also compiled an accompanying resource list, containing all the books/resources we mentioned as well as the advice we gave during the Q&A - find it here (it is also in the video description).
Please share the recording with your friends and family, and if anyone would like to donate more, we encourage you to donate directly to eSIMs for Gaza, where you can purchase an eSIM to provide internet access to Palestinians on the ground.
NEW WORKSHOP: Polyamory and ADHD
My next online event is on the topic of Polyamory and ADHD with fellow ADHD polyamorous creator @bygabriellesmith. If you're polyamorous, you probably have ADHD or know someone with ADHD - and we will be sharing our top tips on time management, emotional management, and conflict management, based on our lived experience with ADHD.
As usual, even if you can't make the date (July 7, which is this Sunday!), you get a copy of the recording, so get a ticket anyway! Tickets here, and if you want to check out my previous polyamory workshops, you can find and download them here.
Recent Highlights from My Patreon
On Patreon this month, I also:
Dished out advice on privacy and PDA when spending time with multiple partners as part of my monthly Q&A
Mused on the new Dan Savage neologism 'tolyamory' and explained what polycules are
And of course, I had a monthly photo dump including my amazing trip in Barcelona (with my metamour Cheyenne as my +1), sponsored by Erika Lust the porn director, my talk in Glastonbury, and my birthday!!! The photo dump also includes my itinerary in Barcelona and travel recommendations from my followers.
Becoming a paid subscriber means you get access to all of this content, everything before it, and everything after! So if you're not subscribed yet, here's your chance. And, here's a sneak peek of what's coming up...
Upcoming Content on Patreon
July 5 - a voice note on how to find (or be) a unicorn. Unicorn hunting is a popular topic in non-monogamous spaces, for better or for worse, and I wanted to share some thoughts!
July 14 - a live Q&A for my patrons. Submit your questions anonymously.
July 15 - a video on how to spot a Pokemon Polyamorist, and how polyamory can be used in negative, shitty ways - with a story on a friendship breakup among two people I know!
July 25 - a voice note on the characteristics that make someone best suited to polyamory (though there are many people who don't fall into what I say!)
July 30 - a photo album of my month!
In addition, I will be uploading a whole bunch of behind the scenes content from my time on the Erika Lust porn set in Barcelona, where I interviewed two sex workers, Calita Fire and Kali Sudhra, for 15 minutes each on their experiences and thoughts on ethical feminist porn. As someone who champions sex worker rights, I want to elevate their voices, and they both had some INCREDIBLE things to say, most of which won't make it into the one-minute clip I'm editing for Instagram. I won't be able to post this until the actual film comes out, so the drop date is TBC - but it is coming to my subscribers!
If you want to watch these as they drop, subscribe now.
Other Updates
I was interviewed for a piece on tolyamory, an explainer on polycules, and I appeared on a podcast with popular British comedian Rhys James!
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